I feel like I connect both this theme because for the longest time I wanted to be one of those popular girls. I thought that if people were to know who I am I needed to be popular. I now have realized that to be a "popular" I had to be mean to other people. That is very cruel and I don't think that it is ok to be mean to another person for no reason at all. I would still like to be accepted by people but not by a popular but by friends and family.