So... Don't loose hope!

When alcoholism and sexual abuse need to be treated together, there is a program called SAID -- the Substance Abuse and Intimacy Disorders Program.

Their process includes a thorough biopsychosocial evaluation, and to identify the sexual abuse causes, there is an added element of a deeper than usual examination of the client’s sexual and relationship history. After that, clients go through cognitive behavioral therapy, group therapy, 12-step work, and social learning. They also participate in various “alternative therapies” that are proven effective in the treatment of addictions.

Weiss, Robert. "When Substance Abuse and Intimacy Issues Are Linked." Psych Central.com. N.p., n.d. Web. 09 Nov. 2014. <http://blogs.psychcentral.com/sex/2013/08/when-substance-abuse-and-intimacy-issues-are-linked/>.

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