• He starts by littering you with compliments via a unsolicited message on Facebook. This is the beginning and will likely result in you eventually blocking him. You are best off not encouraging him. He often starts with unsuspecting females. If you see this behavior, consider giving them a warning by sharing this presentation.

• Next he starts making the sexual advances like asking about your relationship status and awkward and/or confusing language about hooking up with him.

• When you ignore it or don’t respond quickly enough he gets upset with you and threatens to unfriend you.

• Then he apologizes and says your friends again and starts it all over.

• When you are direct with him about not being interested he scolds you for being unkind to him.

• This repeats until you can’t take it anymore, and block him.

• At times, it has gone further. Examples: trying to make you unblock him by telling others to and holding a “reward”, emailing you after the blocking, showing up at the KAC/FTL studio to sit outside the window, unleashing a slew of vitriol on you, denying that there is an issue when a guy confronts you, lying about it afterwards.

The Reoccurring Pattern

STALKING DEFINITION: Since some have been unclear, the definition of stalking is: “unwanted or obsessive attention by an individual or group toward another person. Stalking behaviors are related toharassment and intimidation and may include following the victim in person or monitoring them. - from the first sentence of Wikipedia. Stalking online is still stalking.