In this book Oskar and his mom don't know how to communicate with each other about their problems. If they could it would solve many problems. An example from the book is when Oskar and his mom went to see a therapist. They were both able to talk about some of their issues. When it was Oskar's moms turn he decided to listen to it through the door. He didn't hear what he wanted. He heard that he has issues. This made him feel very sad about himself. If Oskar and his mom could connect like him and his dad they would be feeling a lot better. They would be able to talk and help each other with their problems.

Miscommunication